Discerning discerner asked:
I am feeling alone right now and need affirmation that there are people out there who either feel the same way, like something is really wrong but cant figure out what, or who genuinely care for people!
Dahlia
I think to a certain extent everyone feels alone. No one person in the world feels the same exact way any other person feels at that same moment, but most get the basic gist. But if this isolation feeling is interfering with your life you may want to consider professional advice.
We all feel alone some time or another. Its normal, you just need to talk to a friend. Or make new friends.
hey i’m here…i dont at this point of time feel in anyway out of sorts with the world…[i just finished my exams..:)]..but there are times when for no reason at all i feel alone…the way i get over it is either text or call my closest friends or family and talk about random everyday things…..they always make me feel like there’s someone for me…always..
I feel alone, all the time.
I feel like (more like know) something is wrong but don’t know what.
I care for people.
Good luck with everything. = ]
yeah, i’ve felt that way before. it is weird how you can be surrounded by all your closest friends and family and still feel alone. i used to feel that way often, and sometimes I still do. In my case it is because i suffer from depression. I don’t know if that is the case with you, but it might be worth looking into.
yes…
but when I have bad feelings I hate it…
I’m in NYC and I told my friend, something is going to happen disasterous in Tennessee, the next day tornadoes spunned, I have family there!
My wife feels this way, if I didn’t know better I would have thought she wrote this.
Feed your soul with the holy scripture. Your soul needs nourishment and your creator wants your attention. If you ignore him, he will find a way to get you to come to him. It took me about 35 years to figure that out. I’m 51 and when I forget, he lets me know, lets say he gets my attention. I try to acknowledge his existence twice a day with a short pray of thanks, it’s always worked. It’s amazing.
I know what you mean. Sometimes I feel like I’m all alone in my life and no one understands me, and sometimes the feeling will last longer than it should, but I do care for people and I know that other people care for me, even if I won’t admit it to myself sometimes when I’m sad or angry or focusing on my faults and failures. I figured out something really weird, though. I found that if I wake up in the morning and start feeling depressed right off the bat, I am able to make the decision on my mood. I can think to myself, “No, I don’t want to be sad today, I want to be happy.” And then I let go of whatever’s making me depressed, even if I’m not sure of what it is, and I can allow myself to be happy. The same thing works with other small problems throughout the day, too. I tried applying it to bigger problems that happen throughout the day, but most of the time I can’t let go of my anger or resentment or whatever enough. Still, every day’s a new day and sleeping it off helps. Good luck.
help someone today that will help you stop think about your loneliness. help someone tomorrow and you will begin to find purpose for yourself